In a live, online 2-hour event last year, Ester and Jerry Hicks, and the evolved consciousness collectively known as Abraham, tackled topics ranging from reviving a stalled relationship and healing disease to the best time for using affirmations, and we wanted to share them because the insights are truly timeless and can be applied by anyone starting right now!
During the program, and no matter the issue at hand, the solution always came back to connection. When we are connected to our inner being, our true self and our Source, we feel good. We manifest the things we desire, and all that we need to accomplish our goals seems to fall directly into our laps.
But when we are not connected, when we are focused on lack or on what we don’t want, negativity has a tendency to take over, and we forget that we have a choice not to stay there. Abraham reminds us that we can always make the choice to reconnect.
“As you poke around at the problem, you deny yourself access to the solution,” Abraham said during the live event on HayHouseRadio.com. “Look around your world and try to find things that are pleasing to you. Hang with positive friends and listen to music you like to get yourself back into the vortex.”
The title of the event was “Getting in the Vortex,” and in their book “The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships,” they describe the vortex as “that [which] contains all of the requests, all of the amended requests, each and every detail of each and every asking that has emanated from you — and the Law of Attraction is responding to that.”
So, when we connect to the vortex, or our Source, we hook up to all we desire, which is sitting and waiting for us to reconnect.
During the event, a woman called into the live show and asked what she should do about a 15 year relationship that she no longer found fulfilling. What Abraham explained to her – and what is true for all of us – is that throughout her current relationship, and even before it started, she put preferences out into the universe about the type of relationship she wanted. When she first met this person, it was fun and fulfilling, but eventually she began focusing on what she didn’t like – and that is when the trouble began!
“You created ‘YOU in a relationship’ [that you desire] that is right now suspended in a vibrational arena waiting for you to vibrationally catch up with it. But you are not catching up because you are looking at the unpleasant details and using them as an excuse for holding you apart from who you really are,” said Abraham during the broadcast.
Until she becomes a vibrational match to the relationship she says she desires, she will not manifest it – whether it’s with the current love in her life, or someone new.
“We have a tendency to say, ‘hey lover of mine, you need to be different because when I look at you as you are, I don’t feel good,’ but it is your job to feel good, no matter what your relationship is – then the better one can come in – either with him or another,” said Abraham, explaining we need to care enough about feeling good and connecting with Source that we ignore what is happening in front of us, and focus on what we want to happen instead.
“We know it is easier to look at what is happening then to focus on what you want, but by saying ‘if you were different, I would feel better,’ has you in a place of bondage because you can’t control anybody else.”
Yes, it is easier said than done, but once we get there … the results are SO worth it!
Stay tuned for Abraham’s take on healing disease in the body in Part 2 of our coverage of “Getting in the Vortex”!
And read our FREE article on “Walking On The Sunny Side,” for tips on helping you stay positive no matter what happens in your life!